What She Wants

 

They stood in a courtroom, but this wasn’t about justice.

It was about longing. Wounds. The kind of ache words can't fix.

She said no to his touch—not because she didn’t love him,

but because something inside her had never learned how to feel safe.

He asked for more—not just sex, but connection, affirmation,

to know he was wanted—not just needed.

He called her beautiful.

She felt invisible.

He gave her flowers.

She felt numb.

He wanted her body.

She wanted to be whole.

And isn't that all of us?

We laugh when couples argue about sex,

but it's never just about sex.

It's about the space between two broken souls

trying to build intimacy without healing.

Trying to fix each other with gestures,

with expectations, with sacrifice,

instead of surrender.

But no man can fix what a father broke.

No woman can heal what shame has buried.

No marriage can save a soul that hasn't been touched by God.

This story isn’t rare.

It’s human.

We all come into relationships hoping someone will make us feel worthy,

and we all leave disappointed—unless we meet the One

who already called us worthy before we were touched, before we were wounded.

You can’t give your body away

if you’ve never received your own soul.

Only God can fix that.

And when He does—

intimacy becomes worship,

not war.